Why “model skinny” isn’t the goal for midlife women


🍂 Fall Reset: Stronger Than Ever

Hi Reader,

Fall has a rhythm all its own.

The mornings feel crisp, the days shorten, and the pace of life shifts.

There’s something about this season that naturally calls for a reset.

A chance to slow down, get grounded, and build the kind of routines that carry you through the holidays and into the new year.

But here’s the secret:
👉 You don’t need to overhaul everything. You just need to do the right things — consistently.

Fall isn’t about starting over.

It’s about rebuilding from strength.

Whether summer left you thriving, drifting, or somewhere in between, now is the time to refocus.
Not with fads. Not with extremes.
But with simple, strong habits that support your body, your hormones, and your energy.

🔁 Step 1: Rebuild Your Routine Without Burning Out

Midlife bodies thrive on rhythm, not extremes. You don’t need 6am bootcamps or a carb ban. You need steady anchors that keep your hormones, energy, and stress balanced.

Morning Anchors (Pick 2–3):
⏰ Wake up at the same time daily (yes, even weekends)
💧 Hydrate first thing — water with lemon + a pinch of mineral-rich salt
🚶‍♀️ 5–10 minutes of gentle movement: mobility, yoga flow, or a walk
🧠 Review your goals, your plan, your why
🤔 Ask yourself: “What would the strongest version of me choose today?”

Evening Anchors (Pick 2):
📵 Tech off 30–60 mins before bed
🍴 Prep tomorrow’s meals (no more last-minute stress)
📝 Journal 3 wins and 1 intention
🌙 Stick to a consistent bedtime (your midlife hormones love this)
🙏 Reflect: “What did I do well today?”

🏋️‍♀️ Step 2: Get Back to Training With Purpose

Menopause and post-menopause are when muscle becomes your greatest ally.
It protects your bones, fuels your metabolism, and reshapes your body with curves and strength.

Forget “more workouts.” Focus on more purposeful workouts.

Weekly Blueprint:

  • 3–5 strength + conditioning sessions
  • Daily walking (8K–10K steps)
  • 1 yoga, stretching, or mobility session
  • 1 rest day — guilt-free
  • 1 fun session — dance, circuit challenge, partner workout

💪 This Season’s Focus:

  • Strength over sweat
  • Track your lifts, your progress, and your form
  • Choose quality over quantity
  • Add one challenge session each week (AMRAP, EMOM, finisher)

🍽️ Step 3: Clean Up Your Nutrition Without Perfection Pressure

Midlife metabolism changes, but starving yourself isn’t the solution. Under-eating accelerates muscle and bone loss, disrupts hormones, and keeps you stuck.

Instead: fuel your body to thrive.

Nutrition Goals This Fall:
🥩 Protein in every meal (25–40g per sitting)
🥦 Vegetables at least twice a day
🥔 Smart carbs around training (squash, sweet potato, quinoa)
🥑 Healthy fats for hormones + satiety
💧 2–3L water daily (start your day with salt + lemon)

Structure, not stress:

  • 3 solid meals daily
  • 1–2 nutrient-dense snacks
  • Prep 2–3 days at a time, not a whole week
  • The “One Plate Rule”: half veggies, quarter protein, quarter carbs/fats

🧠 Step 4: Rebuild Your Mindset — Like a Pro

Fall is your comeback season.

3 Mindset Shifts:
1️⃣ Identity > Motivation
“I’m someone who lifts. I’m someone who eats with purpose.”

2️⃣ Progress > Perfection
You don’t need flawless weeks — you need consistent ones.

3️⃣ Stack Wins Early
Drink water, move, fuel breakfast, review your goals.

📋 Fall Reset Checklist

☐ 3–5 workouts completed
☐ Step goal hit (8K–10K)
☐ Protein in every meal
☐ Veggies in 2+ meals daily
☐ 2–3L water per day
☐ 7–9 hours sleep most nights
☐ 1 mindset check-in
☐ 1 recovery session
☐ Meals planned/prepped

Scoring Guide:
🔟 9–10: You’re on fire 🔥
✅ 7–8: Strong + consistent
⚠️ 5–6: Good start — tighten up
🔁 <5: Simplify, reset, recommit

🎯 Fall Challenge: Collect 20 Wins in 30 Days

Every workout, every high-quality meal, every night of 7+ hours sleep — it all counts.

Track them. Celebrate them. Build momentum.

💬 Mantras for Fall

  • “I’m not starting over. I’m starting stronger.”
  • “Consistency, not perfection.”
  • “My habits create my health.”
  • “Strong looks good on me.”

💥 Final Words

This Fall, you don’t need to shrink.
You don’t need to punish yourself.

You need to rebuild, refocus, and rise.

Let this be the season you stop chasing “skinny” and start owning strong.
One win at a time. One rep at a time.

You’ve got this. 🍁

Many blessings to you for abundant health, happiness and wellbeing ~

Strong and Beautiful after 50!

Sharon

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Hi! I'm Sharon

I'm a health & fitness coach and biohacker for women who are menopausal and beyond. My mission is to help menopausal women optimize their health so they can thrive physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Using a combination of nutrition, exercise, habit change, biohacking and mindset tools, menopause becomes a time of positive transformation, energy and growth. I have over 25 years of experience in the health and fitness industry, a B.S in Physical Education, certifications in: nutrition [Precision Nutrition], Wellcoaches, Pilates, Yoga and Digestive Wellness. I chose the name kuhlebody for my health and fitness coaching practice because the word "Kuhle" comes from the African Zulu language which means, "Good, fine and beautiful." Menopause is every woman's opportunity to become KUHLE.

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